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  <title>Tony Grindel</title>
  <subtitle>There is a definite answer to today's problems.</subtitle>
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  <name>User 518</name>
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   <title>Add to the Vision</title>
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   <summary type="text">I don't know if any of this works.  There are other sites like this, and for all the effort one would think something good would come.  I see little change or progress.  So today I drafted a new scheme, it follows.  The only change will follow a deep change.</summary>
   <content type="html"><![CDATA[<img src="http://www.newciv.org/pic/nl/catpic/518/2.gif" title="Category: Articles" align="right" hspace="20" vspace="10" alt="category picture" />Every person alive, or that ever lived with few exceptions, has lived in some misery,<br/>sometimes enormous. We accept it. This state exist nowhere else in the universe. If<br/>we see our environment as logical, then we must be causing our own misery. To<br/>continue to think itʼs due to the bad guys or other people will continue our downward<br/>slide. Look closer to the core of our existence: the reason that each of us is alive, is by<br/>a sexual encounter. If any species could realize the gravity of their presence, itʼs us,<br/>and to be able to control that presence choosing behavior that would reflect the<br/>benevolence found in every aspect of nature, is also a realization.<br/>Finding a special person whom one admires for a number of qualities, building on such<br/>relations until a spark appears that draws the two together and through a commitment of<br/>devotion, become one, and only at that point letting the sexual pleasures build and<br/>strengthen the bond, and yield that Godly task of creating life; an extension of the love<br/>that propagates millions of cubed light years. By merely existing, is evidence of this<br/>attitude and nature always chooses it, only man is free to decide how. We can accept<br/>that man finds it easy to choose happiness and comfort at every opportunity. This<br/>should give us more happiness and comfort. The result is actually a world of fear and<br/>worry. Worry that we may lose all that we have earned and deserve, and fear that<br/>someone will actually take it from us and our families. Thatʼs what we get for looking<br/>out for ourselves.<br/>Einstein pointed this out: seeking such happiness and comfort is not different than<br/>behavior of cattle; seeking the values of goodness, truth and beauty will in the end<br/>provide rich happiness and endless comfort. Knowing that we choose it so selflessly,<br/>makes it even more rewarding. Choosing to have sex for sex as a right to be practiced<br/>at will, is not a reflection of benevolence. To truly care more for others, requires<br/>monogamy. From our countless experiences, anything less produces heartbreak, pain,<br/>regret, embarrassment, abortion, unwanted pregnancy, less than nurtured infants,<br/>unappreciated youth, abusive situations, sexually transmitted disease, etc. Monogamy<br/>produces none of that and results in the attitude mentioned, benevolent. Observing the<br/>behavior that moves species forward in their evolution, and as one that chooses<br/>behavior, humans now control their evolutionary course, by that free choice. Continue<br/>the way of man and stay in a world of fear and worry, or jump into the next one by freely<br/>and willingly deciding it.<br/>Everyone today would not have the remorse of a life less than perfectly lived, had<br/>monogamy been accepted earlier. If you eat your dessert before the rest of the meal, at<br/>dessert time thereʼs nothing to enjoy. Social behavior will bring us heaven on earth.<br/>Immortality, space travel, constant ecstasy are all obtainable things, but not in the way<br/>that we look at them now. Like all nature, we evolve. Let your conscience be your<br/>guide, and rejoice.<br/>Power comes from knowledge, all knowledge comes from experience, experience<br/>shows us that love begets love and any degree of non loving creates evil, sin, bad luck,<br/>all unnatural. Keep the spirit of love strong in every thought, word, and act.]]></content>
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