 10 Oct 2006 @ 10:51, by Alana Tobin
October 2006 – Issue No# 24
Navigating the Waves of Consciousness
A Monthly Online Update Report
New readers please see our Introduction to the Report to familiarize your self with some background about us: Alana and Max and the purpose of this newsletter! We invite each of you to discern with your heart that which is shared here. It is our intention to support you to access directly your own ‘being and knowing’ as you experience and express more of Your Divine Potential!
May your path be Light filled as you Transition into living your Heartstory!
Intro to the Report
Online Report for October 2006
An Intro about Alana as Telepath
The Key Phrase for this month: 'Transparency as the path to restoring the telepathic bridge'
Well it has now been two years that we at Heartstory have been making available to a growing list, our monthly Relation-Ship Report. Since publishing our website last October, we have focused our combined energies to work creatively together to develop our skills working with image and sound as well as learning how best we can utilize our page turning e-book software. During this time we also have been in the process of developing content for our series of Heartstory books that will soon make available through a Heartstory Creations sub-domain. We will announce that opening in the very near future. We are excited to express ourselves in this way, and are opening to increasing joy as the technologies available at this time on the planet support us in bringing a message to the public in informing and entertaining ways. We wish to announce that we feel called to take a much needed two month break, a break for the months November and December. We look forward to communicating again at the start of the new year.
In the last newsletter we shared information to encourage folks to get clear with trust so that one's foundation is strong and stable in preparation for the shifts ahead. In the current cycle there is a nervous tension and the tendency to go, go go, as many open to increasing light flows... some have expressed experiencing a restlessness and shifts in sleep patterns. We ourselves have been staying up until the wee hours in the morning over the past couple of weeks as we experience increasing stimulus with the profound openings occurring as they impact our creative process. It wasn't until the full moon in Aries, that we both felt a significant shift in support of integrating the light in ways more balancing for mind, body and spirits.
In this next cycle, there will be increasing opportunities to become clear in terms of how we hide or resist opportunities to become more transparent in relationship. This is very important work now as we prepare ourselves to enter into new territory which involves opening to experience our telepathic communications with one another in more conscious ways. As we ground this awareness into ordinary waking reality, we are challenged to address the ways we hide or withhold information in order to maintain distance or a sense of safety. The heart is the telepathic bridge to the soul, and as we become willing and ready to relate more from our hearts and less from our minds, we will create thriving environments supportive to being authentically transparent (present) in relationship.
Often people fear talking straight, much less sharing what they perceive from a telepathic point of view. Accustomed to repressing our authentic voice, due to fears that we may get it wrong, or that we may upset or trigger pain for others or encounter feelings we are ill prepared to face in ourselves, we may shy away or even avoid such transparent interactions. Some are not willing or able to be so present or to be honest about feelings, beliefs, or inner pain as well as the sharing of desires, dreams and that which one holds to be sacred.
However, without that we can express openly what we intuit, feel and experience, we will feel a growing emptiness as well as pressure that will eventually have us craving breathing space. For without the space to be authentic and free, we will experience the pain of repression. At times we will telepathically or empathically perceive a great deal without that there are words shared. In fact it is often the case that words themselves distance us and prevent us from experiencing true intimacy. As we become more psychically sensitive, we will come to see how our thoughts and emotions intertwine. Psychically we will sense the energies and even when not present in the same room, we will pick up what others are sending to us or they will pick up what we transmit to them. At times we will even dream of one another in order that we may resolve differences or relate in ways that physical reality or circumstances may not allow.
When experiencing upset with a message shared; as with feelings, there is often a tendency to transfer one's upset: through judgment or criticism toward the messenger rather than examine the source of the real upset as it pertains to the message and what it triggers for us. One of the cues that someone is not willing to be present with us in relationship is when they start to banter the term 'projection'. We have witnessed this as a common line of defense particularly within new age circles when someone decides to brush someone off because they themselves are unwilling to address what is out of balance within the relationship. Another phrase that may come up is 'that is your reality' in order that a person can distance themselves from their feelings, create distance from the other and the issue that is surfacing for resolve. Most likely someone will be rejecting an opportunity to take ownership of their own unconscious feelings, needs or behaviour as it directly impacts the relationship.
When we are prepared to give up our judgments, our demands, our excuses, defenses and the stances that polarize us therefore preventing us from relating from the open space of our hearts; we will stretch beyond our current comfort zones and defensive mechanisms to experience sharing our love in increasingly transparent ways. There is nothing to hide when we are willing to be real with what is current in the now, or what is triggered from the past as it continues to be alive and present for us and present within the relationship. Even if and when it causes us to feel pain, fear or feelings we deem unacceptable or unlovable whether within ourselves or another, we can choose to love it all. When we do, we will free ourselves from the polarizations which tie us to suffering. It is then that we are free to enter fully into experiencing the magic of what it is to exist as an open system.
So often we repress our intuitive knowing because we are dependent upon outer reality to confirm for us what we perceive within. So wounded is the trust of our instincts that we often look outside of ourselves for validation from others because we have grown accustomed to doubting our feelings, and mis-trusting our intuitive knowing and forfeiting a sacred reality because of social pressures. As we heal our instincts and learn to trust our feelings, we will become more accountable in relationship and in life. It is this willingness to be present in love no matter what emerges that will see us through all matter of conflict, confusion and pain.
When we care about how we impact others we prioritize the relationship over individual needs, feelings and desires. As long as we make individuality more important than intimacy, we will repulse opportunities for conscious love to be present and grow within our lives. True intimacy takes into account the needs and desires of those in the relationship, and authentic intimacy is most present when the communication addresses the relationship and its inherent quality rather than the separate selves. For as long as the focus is on individual perceptions, needs and feelings there will be power conflicts, projections and struggle.
Support Questions for These Changing Times
Questions to evoke insights and healing:
* What am I afraid of others seeing or knowing about me?
* What in me do I find unacceptable or unlovable that has me opt for hiding? When do I tend to hide and with whom?
* What keeps me from being vulnerable in relationship?
* In relationship am I willing to process the pain that emerges and see it as 'our pain' rather than his/her pain?
* Am I more committed to the relationship or to my own individual reality experience? Am I committed to being right at the expense of growing in a relationship?
* Am I willing to listen to the other and be there with them through their experience to then ask for the same from them?
* Am I ready to give up arguing with their reality as it conflicts with mine, and to accept instead responsibility for our relationship and how it is that we are relating and co-creating our experience together?
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If you would like personal assistance to clear and shift difficult karmic patterns, blockages or limiting programs, we invite you to contact Alana for an individual booking. Visit ourIntuitive Centre Directory to know more.
Until next time...remember to go within each day to align with Source in support of establishing and maintaining harmony, stability and integrity of energy as love.
Happy Sailing,
Alana and Max Tobin.
Joy can be real only if people look on their life as a service, and have a definite object in life outside themselves and their personal happiness.
- Leo Nikolaevich Tolstoy -
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